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    Wednesday, June 7th, 2006
    9:16 pm
    Wild Wild West 17 day Trip
     Westward Bound Journal updated as of 6/25/06
     
    The idea for this trip came just about one week before leaving. A good friend of mine named Becky was moving to Nevada and her daughter Jamie was flying to Houston so she could help drive the rest of the way. I heard Becky mention she was a little nervous about driving to Texas by herself, so I volunteered.
     
    I told her that I really didn’t want Houston to be my “final destination” so what about me driving with them to San Antonio? She asked, “You just want me to let you out?” I quickly replied (for those who know my history), “well…AT LEAST come to a complete stop”.
     
    I checked on “Google Earth” and looked at the San Antonio satellite map and saw the hotel I wanted. I made reservations at the Hilton Palacio Del Rio located right on the River walk. My initial plan was to tour the city by myself, then fly to New Orleans on Sunday, stay just outside the city with friends and then fly home on Wed the 31st; the whole trip was SUPPOSED to total only 10 days.
     
    There’s an old saying, “write your goals in concrete but your plans in sand”. In other words, my goal was still to return home BUT I had no idea about the experiences and changes to my travel plans that awaited me. It now reminds me of the old TV show, Gilligan’s Island…. “They went out on a 3 hour tour”.
     
    Sunday 5/21/06 – Becky met me at the entrance of Old Burnt Fort road at 9am with a Penske truck fully loaded towing her SUV on a flatbed trailer.
    We were able to cut out 30 miles by taking a short cut through Folkston, GA and then getting on I-10 in Maclenny. FL.
     
    Driving down country roads brought us quickly to the Florida line but also to the VERY small Agricultural check point station, which was almost hidden by trees on the opposite side of the road. WHEN I did finally see it, it was too late. I slowed down to about 10 mph but since we were towing a vehicle, it would have been too much of a hassle to turn around, so I proceeded on. All during this time, she kept telling me we didn’t have to stop but I said, “I think we did”. We each tried to convince each other of our own point (RN’s tend to do that) but I finally said if we get pulled over…she was wrong. Well…we did. I really didn’t want to be right (well kind of). At least we only got a verbal warning (told you so).

    We had another problem though....we needed a solution to our seating problem. We just assumed there would be one long seat in the truck cab for 3 but we found out it only had 2 bucket seats. Things would be fine until Houston but when we left from there to go the 200 miles to San Antonio, there would be 3 in the truck. We came up with ideas from rental cars to hot air balloons....I settled for a flight from Houston.
     
    Our goal was to reach Todd Gibbs place in Gulf Shores, AL and we got there around 7pm. It was good to see Todd because we all used to work together in the ER in Brunswick. GA. He decided to take us to the flora-bama bar (located on the Florida and Alabama state line…hence the name). On the way to this” historic landmark”, he showed us the continued devastation from hurricane Ivan that came across there in Sept 04.
     
    When we got to our destination, we came across a lot of “happy” people and we took our turn in pursuing that emotion. After catching up on each other’s news, we went back and Todd cooked some of the best fish I’ve ever eaten (maybe it was due to the after-effects of flora-bama).
    The next day (Monday) we went to a matinee at 1:30pm to see “The Davinci Code”. Forget the plot; I still can’t get over the fact that we only had to pay $10.30 for 3 adults!
    Afterwards, we ate seafood at Lulu’s (owned by Jimmy Buffet’s sister) and then walked on the sugar white beach of Gulf Shores.
     
    Went back and watched some TV and after Becky went to sleep, Todd and I went out on his porch and solve the world problems until he had to go to bed to be ready for work the next day.
     
    We left Tuesday morning around 8am and our next goal was to reach Houston, TX where Becky’s son, who is also named Todd (it can get confusing), lived.
     We estimated the moving van, fully loaded with vehicle in tow, was getting 11 miles per gallon. She factored in the total miles from start to finish and it came to a little over $900 just for gas; small price for a brand new adventure (very proud & even envious of her).
    Arrived in Houston and got to Todd’s apt at 7:30pm very easily but ONLY with the aid of the “Co-Pilot” GPS system loaded in my laptop.
     
    Becky and Todd went to airport at 11pm to pick up Jamie who flew in from Ohio.
    When they arrived, we settled in and watched the harvesting of snow crabs on the Discovery channel until 1am (I know you watched it too).
    Wednesday, for lunch, we ate at Stone Fish (Todd’s workplace) and in memory of last night’s show, I ate some crab legs.
    That night, “Chief Todd” cooked hamburgers and oven roasted corn that was still in the husk….excellent!
     
    Early Thursday morning the girls got off okay and Todd took me to George Bush airport by 8:30am. I arrived at San Antonio airport with no problems but when I bought a hotel shuttle ticket….I only bought a one way ticket. I have to admit, it really bothered me, “Why didn’t I buy a round trip shuttle ticket? I could have saved 2 dollars!”
    Not many days hence, I found out buying only one shuttle ticket was not only the best decision but perhaps, the ONLY decision to make.
     
    The front desk staff at the Hilton Palacio not only allowed me to check in early at 11am, they also gave me a free upgrade from street side to a private balcony with river view. I could have jumped off my 7th floor balcony into the San Antonio River but since it was only 5 feet deep, I decided to put my energies to better use.
     
    I ate at one of the many river street restaurants, fed the ducks and pigeons (people do that who travel alone) and then took the riverboat tour (that too) to check out the local hot spots.
     
    My sister Debbi called and wanted me to get in touch with her brother-in-law who lived just outside of San Antonio. My first thought was a bit negative because I liked not having a schedule; little did I know what type of future was in store for me. After talking with Billy and Sally, we decided to eat at one of their favorite restaurants Friday afternoon and then after checking out on Sunday, they would take me to see 3 of their horses race that afternoon. The last race would end a 5pm and then they’d take me to the airport for my flight at 8pm (remember me buying only one shuttle ticket?)
    Things were coming together in great fashion and just think….I didn’t want to have a schedule ---- silly me.
    Called Debbi back and sincerely thanked her for “interrupting my plans”.
     
    Went for a night walk along the river, ate an appetizer, drank a very special margarita and found the Alamo….very impressive; especially at night when it’s all lit up. On the way back to the hotel I discovered a great jazz club so I went in and enjoyed the music and the people.
     
    After the 2nd break I excused myself and continued my exploration. I’d been hearing bag pipes playing in the distance all through the evening and now after 11pm, I could still hear it. I first thought it had to be recorded music because it never stopped but the more steps I took, the louder the music got. It sounded like it was coming from the street level so after walking up the stairs; there they were….dueling bag pipes!
    Watched them ply their trade for about 15 minutes and then left a tip before making the short walk back to the hotel.
    After taking a refreshing shower, I updated my virtual journal while a constant gentle breeze came through the open balcony door. Thursday was closing and Friday was eager to appear; it’s midnight and this beautiful city was calming down and preparing for a new day.

    The pillow top mattress + down feather comforter + high thread count sheets + oversized pillows = a wonderful night sleep. I rolled out of bed at 10am and had my morning caffeine sacrifice. Immediately after opening the balcony door, the drapes swayed in sync to the light breeze, the soft hum of city life, mixed with birds singing and the occasional voices from the boat guides below, gently filled the room. While on the balcony drinking my last cup of morning coffee, gazing at the white clouds as they slowly marched across the stark blue western sky, a smile came across my face and I breathed a sigh of contentment….this was the life.  
     
    I made it to the 1:30pm showing of “The Alamo” at the River Center IMAX about a ½ mile away from the hotel. After getting caught up on my Western history, I walked the short distance to the actual site of the Alamo. First impression is it’s not as big as you think it should be. The movie, of course, showed everything in its original state, including the outer walls, which have disappeared over time. What you mainly see today is the church/chapel that they used as their “last stand”; very impressive with plenty of artifacts to view. I would highly suggest watching the IMAX version of “The Alamo” before touring the memorial….it will put it in greater perspective, at least it did for me.

    One thing that makes this city very appealing is the short distance between the numerous restaurants, bars and shops. If San Antonio is your only destination, you don’t even need a rental car; especially if you stay in the river district. If you want to expand your tour, the City has a trolley and conventional metro bus service that seems adequate.
     
    Ate a late lunch watching the people and the tour boats pass by. Decided it was time to go shower and get ready to meet the “Western Watsons”. Talked to Billy on the phone, he described the car that he'd be driving and confirmed the pick up time.
    The car he described pulled up at 6:30pm, I got in and then he asked, “Are you Rob?” I should have said, “No....I’m John” but I quickly decided not to…I didn’t know how he'd react to my little joke. We met up with Sally at one of their favorite eateries named, La Fonda’s. It’s a great Tex-Mex restaurant known for their margaritas but I personally found out they also should known for their hot peppers and boy do I mean HOT! I told the manager I wanted some hot peppers but I quickly discovered my southern definition of “hot” was VERY different from the western version. I still think the roots of that pepper plant went straight down to Hell…it felt like liquid fire!!!

    While my body was restoring its core temperature and the Texas state drink was healing my scorched taste buds, a friend of theirs named Bill joined us for dinner. Drinks flowed and friendships were made.
     
    I told them my short “to do” list included taking pictures of a Texas sunset. They said, if I would delay my flight until Monday, I could spend the night at their ranch after the race and see that sunset I talked about. As you could imagine, it didn’t take me too long to make the right decision.
     
    After leaving La Fonda’s they dropped me back off at the hotel and I spent what was left of the evening on the balcony listening to an outdoor musical just around the river bend.

    Saturday morning came in with a gentle nudge and I slowly started my day. For some reason I started watching the movie, Bill and Ted’s Most Excellent Adventures.
    After gaining my sanity back, I realized that I was “producing” my own most excellent adventure…I just didn’t realize how many “new stars” would be introduced in just over a 24 hour time period.
     
    I loaded my laptop into my leather bag and made the short trek on the river walk to the River Center. The area was noticeably busier due to it being Memorial Day weekend but it didn’t take too long to find an open table. The River Center is like a cul-de-sac for the river boats to turn around and located here is the IMAX, shops, eateries, bars and live music. While updating my journal, a wood wind band (across the water garden) played soothing new age music which added to the sense of being in another world.
    The beauty I was experiencing would have been magnified by having someone by my side. Thinking back about it now, maybe being by myself allowed me to totally drink in the moment, without having to worry about ensuring someone else’s good time.
     
    Spent the first part of the evening updating my photo journal and decided, since it was my last night on the river front, to join the music and the people down below. Went to the Lone Star lounge, listened to a live band, imbibed on the “local fruit” and met some of the locals. A light thunderstorm cropped up so I went back to my room and watched the waning festivities from my balcony.
     
    I could hear the intermitted shouts of joy as different individuals made up their own “rain dance”. After midnight, everything started to quiet down except the light rain…its time to sleep.
     
    Sunday morning came a little too early but the snooze button became my best friend by helping me enjoy my comfortable bed just a little bit longer.
    Sally called (noticeably out of breath), the light rain and wind I experienced last night was a totally different story on their ranch. She said they rarely have tornados but they have wind shears which are straight blast of strong winds….kind of like a rouge wave (Poseidon Adventure). There was tree damage and the horses in one of the paddocks got spooked and broke through the fence…quarter horses were everywhere!
    They were rounded up, the fence mended and my scheduled pick up time was moved to 12:30.
    I checked out of a great hotel, ate a late breakfast and watched the tourist boats go by for one last time.
     
    I thought to myself…“if I don’t, ‘Remember The Alamo’, I will always remember my San Antonio experience!”
      
    The Watsons picked me up as planned, ate lunch and then drove about 15 min. to the Retama race track. These races were designed for the “locals’ to compete against each other and the Watsons had 3 of their horses running in 3 separate races.
    The clouds from last night’s rain starting breaking up and the sun with its blue sky provided another beautiful Texas size day with other constant refreshing breeze.
    This breeze finally compelled me to ask a local about it and she said it got hotter as the calendar pages peel off (their future demise, for some reason, made me feel better).
     
    Most of the “Western Watson” clan gathered at the viewing paddock where the current horses about to race, were placed; it was great renewing old relationships and creating new ones.
    I told them, this was “my first time” (at a horse race) so please be gentle with me.
                                                                                 
    Their first horse, Bronx bomber finished 3rd --- I lost $5
    Girl gone wind finished 5th ---I lost $8
    Cyclysm Six, after photo finish, won in a dead heat for 1st---- I bet 2 to win and 2 to place and won $25……yeah, I’m a winner, who’s your daddy now?!
     
    After that race we all gathered inside the winner circle and had our picture taken with the winning horse and jockey. It couldn’t get any better than this….little did I know the events that would soon unfold.
     
    After EVERYBODY in the family cashed in their winning tickets, we traveled about 25 miles northeast to their horse farm for a family cookout and, finally for me, to marvel at a western sunset.
     
    When we arrive I have to say my expectations were not met, the best word to use was….exceeded.
     
    What I saw was 80 acres of fenced green pasture surrounding the main house, workshop, horse barn and even a regulation skeet shooting range. There were, I guess, 15 horses distributed between the several paddocks.
     
    After playing catch with ALL the dogs, eating great steaks and having conversation, most of us retired outside to not only drink “refreshments” but to drink in the sunset that awaited us. This family definitely followed the philosophy, “a stranger is only a friend we haven’t met yet”; they were impeccable host.
     
    Billy started a blaze in the large stone fire pit as we watched the most beautiful sunset transform before us. I never realized orange had some many variations as it stretched its magnificence across the flat terrain.
     
    As the night progressed, the family, one by one, started retiring for the evening but Drew, Tanna and I “stayed the course.”
     
    We laughed, talked, drank Dos Equis, sang and took pictures by the glowing embers, listening all the while to true old Texas music through the outdoor speakers.  I have to admit I didn’t want this night to end; the stars were beautiful, a light breeze from the East and spending time with some “top shelf” individuals.
     
    My oldest sister Debbi once told me, “We do not remember days…we remember moments (cesare pavese)” and since the early evening, I realized a “moment” was occurring. I paid attention to every minute detail because with the coming of tomorrow…..it would all be a memory,
     
    We celebrated the setting of the sun….but we almost saw it rise.  Around 4am we called it quits and each fell quickly to sleep, in whatever bed we could find.
     
    Monday morning came early with the smell of great food and conversation coming from the kitchen. True, last night was now a memory to be cherished but the Western sun and weather patterns would usher in their own new experiences.
     
    After we talked about it, the decision was made for me (I wasn’t hard to convince) to call Southwest again and delay my flight till later in the day.
    Since it was Memorial Day, all flights were booked to New Orleans until the next day at 4:45pm….booked it. Now I had time to enjoy the surrounding before me and take more pics for my journal. Called the Masons and told them I’d be a day late; they said it worked out better for them because they were exhausted due to hardly any sleep. They drove 2 cars with one towing a trailer filled with their last load of belongings from Burnt Fort, GA to Slidell, LA and they didn’t arrive to their new home until 3:00 that morning.
     
    After breakfast, the girls went shopping at a huge western store (they really did) and the guys gathered around the large screen flat TV and watched the Braves get pummeled by the Dodgers and the rest of the early afternoon was spent recuperating. As the sun dropped so did the number of family members; gave hugs, goodbyes and promises of return were given; I will miss each and every one.
     
    To be continued…………………………………………….
     
    Monday, May 8th, 2006
    2:38 pm
    Victims of Abuse
    I was talking with a young friend of mine about what makes family members do what they do. We discussed how so many individuals, when honest, have a story about some adult in their life that didnt quite fit the bill..if you know what I mean.


    We hear stories every day of how a responsible adult behaved in such a way that just wasnt right. What do you say to a victim of abuse? How do you explain the actions taken by someone who was ONCE looked up to? Something must have happened to these abusers during the early stages of their development that made growth stop. Im not talking about physical.Im referring to mental growth. It's highly probable that the individual was abused as a child and then crawled into their own "mental shell", and life moved on. Their body grew, as designed, but their mind, emotion, and will, have hardly even changed.


    While, they may appear to be child-like in how they process and handle a stressful situation, their muscles and harsh tones are not. These potential Weapons of Mass Destruction are not adults.theyre kids trapped in an adult body. These "WMD's" can either keep an entire family hostage by making them always walk on egg shells or even worse....they can privately torment a "lone target".


    I'm not here to suggest a way to cure this disease because self-help books are still being written, and will continue to be cranked out. I write this to remind those who have gone through the battle, either alone or with family, three things: #1 A responsible adult has the capacity to control their emotions and desires but a child has a greater tendency to fly off the handle or always looks to steal from the cookie jar. #2 The adult who was put in charge during that dreadful time, was not an adult at all..only a really disturbed kid living in a grown up body. #3 Victims of abuse have the responsibility to break the vicious cycle. If the victim is a responsible adult and they choose to stay or go back into the same unresolved situation (filled with dark drama), they are no longer a victim....they are now a participant; if the cycle is not broken, it has a 99.9 chance of being passed down to their next generation.


    So what do we do when our past is filled with "unpleasant" memories?
    As mentioned above in #3, we need to break that dark cycle and replace it with a new one; a cycle composed of comfort and healing. As we walk through life on our "individual paths", we will encounter the TEAM. With Them, we can find exactly what we need and then a new cycle can begin. When we receive Their comfort & healing, we can then comfort others with the comfort we have received....then we receive MORE comfort and healing (2 Cor. 1:4). The keyword here is others. The worst thing we can do is to stay in our little worlds. The best thing we can do is get out and get involved by helping other individuals in our local communities.....we can place our mark by becoming "peacemakers".


    Whatever we do, we have to make a choice. If we decide not to make one....we just did. The best definition of insanity I've ever heard is: KEEP DOING THE SAME THING BUT EXPECTING DIFFERENT RESULTS. My suggestions are three fold: #1 Accept the fact that the only thing "fair" in life comes once a year and the rides are expensive. #2 Finally decide to take control of our own individual lives (not someone else's) and realize, "if it's to be, it's up to me". #3 Face the fact we ALL need help and remember....nothing's impossible when the TEAM (God, Jesus & the Holy Spirit) is on our side!
    Wednesday, April 26th, 2006
    7:02 pm
    Independence Road
    It's hard to imagine but it has been 2 years since I've "clocked in" at a work place. TRUE, I'm thankful for being covered by long-term disability insurance but I don't like being dependent on "my monthly check". Actually, I think it makes you age quicker by ALWAYS waiting for the second Wed of the month.
    I'm tired of living for 1 day out of the month, I don't even want to live for each allotted day in the monthly calendar....I want to live for every moment.
    Presently, it seems the only way to accomplish this is to go in business for my self. My goal is to work myself out of work and "hit the road" in a RV.
    By being my own boss, I shouldn't get as "stressed out" with my slower pace (I need to overcome the feeling others are always looking over my shoulder & wanting to help). I may be slow....but I THINK fast!!!!!
    Every successful business comes from finding a need and providing the best way possible to fulfill it in the local community.
    Woodbine, GA, located in Camden county, is a quaint little coastal town that has refused to grow with the times but no longer can they hide from progress. The whole Southeastern coastline is exploding and this little "Mayberry RFD" town (You remember Aunt Bee don't you? R.F.D. = Rural Free Delivery) is caught right in the middle of it.
    My projects are 2 fold:

    My 1st building project is: WOODBINE SELF-STORAGE. It will consist of climate controlled, regular storage, RV and boat storage on 5 acres. At this time, there are no storage units within an approximate 20 mile radius of Woodbine and it will be built in 2 stages. I'm meeting with the city admin next week so this little venture may turn into a reality.
    The 2nd project will be the toughest....creating SATILLA RIVER RV PARK, a high-end campground with all the best amenities. Land is not too much of a concern, this acreage has been in our family for decades, so it's not going anywhere.
    The biggest concern is conducting a true feasibility study, obtaining ALL the permits, dealing with the EPA and last but not least, cost.
    At least it doesn't cost anything to dream and you've got to have a dream before reality can occur.
    Thanks for letting me share mine!!!
    Rob
    Friday, March 10th, 2006
    5:44 pm
    Comfortable....not Compatible
    Comfortable....not Compatible
    thinking back on my 6 years with "my wife" (name concealed to protect the innocent), it's evident that we were comfortable with each other but not compatible....our differences were many.

    you name it, from football (she NEVER pulled for the GA Bulldogs), spiritual/social issues, and basically life in general. she's a HEADLINE NEW'S women and i'm a FOX NEWS type of guy...."fair & balanced"?

    with all these differences, it didn't help that i was 15 years her senior. we did have far more good times than bad....we never really "clicked". on the outside, we were too comfortable to make any drastic changes (counseling vs. divorce) but on the inside is where the problem resided and grew.

    even during the "good times" we were separated a lot due to my work....which added to our demise; you can have a multitude of differences as long as you're around each other long enough to "work things out".

    so there we were, living together "comfortably" but not at all compatible and by not doing anything about it, constant conflicts arose.
    by living in this vicious cycle, my life started filling up with quiet desperation. i was miserable....the U2's song entitled, "still haven't found what i'm looking for" subconsciously became my theme song.

    by the time we became uncomfortable enough to do something about it....IT was too late but if you can have a "friendly divorce", we had one.

    thinking back now.....the years we were together now seems like a vague dream but i do have to admit, i miss talking with the friend that i grew comfortable with.

    IT SURE IS LONELY GETTING WHAT YOU WANT!!

    till next time,
    rob
    1:06 am
    Tuesday, February 28th, 2006
    8:43 pm
    Dena Williams' Moment
    i recently went to pay my respects to friends whose daughter died of an inoperable brain tumor.
    she and her mother were treated for cancer (at the same time) a few years earlier but since then, both had been doing very well.
    in her early teenage years she made a few wrong choices and things seemed to be "turning around" for this brave young woman.
    she started going back to church and even shared her story, along with her mother, to those who would hear.

    she had done well....all of her obstacles seemed to be dwindling.

    this is just one reason why life is so beautiful - no matter what we've done, there's ALWAYS room for "do overs".

    BUT....

    maybe it started with a reoccurring headache; whatever it was, the brain scan confirmed the dreaded diagnosis.
    it's impossible to imagine how she felt upon hearing the words that spilled out of the doctor's mouth.
    first cancer and now this?
    her whole life probably flashed before her eyes BUT then it had to come to a screeching halt because she was only 33.

    i started going over my "problems", even after being diagnosed with parkinson's disease at 44...how could i complain; ESPECIALLY when she spent the last 2 weeks of her life in hospice?

    then i started thinking, what do you say to a family in this situation, "God loves you?" even though it's a very true statement, it just didn't seem enough.

    i thought about this while i drove to the funeral home....what would i say if someone asked, "why did this happen"?
    i then remembered a comforting Word that provided peace when i was first informed of my small movement disorder.

    somewhere in the good book it says: "trust in the Lord with ALL your heart (not some of it, or when it's convenient), lean not on your own understanding (there's just some things our small feeble minds can't figure out), acknowledge HIM in all your ways (just start small & at own individual pace) and HE will make your paths straight (not smooth but now will have a purpose/goal).

    in the scheme of "things to come", who is to say what's needed in our lives?
    it's a fact....bad AND good things happen to people with no discrimination to age, sex, importance, income or popularity level.

    the only difference is, how are you processing it?

    at some place or time, on your life's journey, you'll have to make a choice: are you going to keep doing it alone (and keep getting the same results) or are you going to let the Big Guy have HIS turn?

    with the TEAM (God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit) on your side, you can rest in the fact, when "bad" things happen (and they will), THEY can produce positive benefits from EVERY situation.

    true, the young women had a hard life BUT she handled it well.
    she gave the TEAM permission to take control of her "processor" (her mind, emotion & will).
    no longer was she like a sailing ship without a rudder, being tossed here and there; she now had meaning.

    she left a big positive mark on the people that knew her....not by giving in or giving up but by GIVING OVER.

    thank you, my friend, for your life's example; it won't be forgotten and i look forward to seeing you again.

    Rob
    PlacingYourMark.com
    Thursday, January 5th, 2006
    12:40 pm
    christmas blessing


    for our christmas vacation we went to Shenandoah Valley in VA and stayed at

    the Massanutten four season resort from 12/18 to 12/25. i drove through atlanta to pick up my daughter and the rest of the crew went by train.
    a total of 10 people went but there was plenty of room in the condo....it even had 3 full baths.

    the biggest blessings were 2 fold: the cold weather (plenty of snow on and

    off the slopes) and no injuries. the temp rose the day we checked out and it

    rained for 3 days straight afterwards....we were there at the perfect time.
    to view the complete photopost album of the trip, click HERE
    Tuesday, January 3rd, 2006
    3:00 am
    everybody has a story
    what makes up your life story? if you're like most of us, it usually rotates between the adventure, drama, comedy, mystery and horror sections.

    Placing Your Mark.com focuses on the importance of our individual stories, the different types of marks we place on life and how we record them.

    we're all familiar with: spraying graffiti, writing in beach sand and in cement, carving initials in a tree and maybe even having a statue erected in loving memory. these types of marks are easily identifiable and simple to photograph.

    view the different types of "marks" i've placed on my site's home pages. while your there, go ahead and register at "placing your mark" photopost gallery. upload your pics so family & friends (people you've haven't met yet) can share in your experience. if you ever stumble across a "mark", upload the pic so all can see.

    the best and most important marks we leave, are the most illusive and hard to capture in a pic. these types of "marks" are the positive impressions or influences we leave on others. this is where "livejournal.com" comes in. other people need to read about your ventures so they can be inspired, informed, challenged and humored.

    you can record your story by pressing the comment button below. it's your move.

    well, since it's 0300, i'm moving "my mark" to bed.
    see ya,
    rob
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